PQ Series

PQ 8.10 — Am I afraid that if my partner has sex with someone else, she will start comparing me whenever we have sex?

PQ 8.9 — Do I believe that other people are willing to do sexual things that I’m not willing to do, and therefore my partner will like having sex with them better?

PQ 8.8 — More Glue, Please! Sex, Intimacy, and Reinforcing a Relationship Through Collateral Attachment

PQ 8.7 — Do I think that if my partner has sex with someone “better in bed” than I am, she won’t want to have sex with me anymore or won’t need me anymore?

PQ 8.6 — Polyamory Isn’t a Multiple Choice Test, It’s An Essay

PQ 8.5 — But What About the Flattering Jealousy?

PQ 8.4 — Do I feel that most other people are sexier, more good-looking, more worthwhile, funnier, smarter or just generally better than I am, and I am not able to compete with them?

PQ 8.3 — Does the idea of my partner having another lover mean that whatever my partner sees in me will no longer be valid, or that my partner will want to choose that other lover over me?

PQ 8.2 — Am I uncertain about the value my partner sees in me? Am I not sure why my partner wants to be with me?

PQ 8.1 — Am I worried that if someone “better” comes along, my partner will realize I’m not good enough and want to replace me?