“You’re polyamorous?” she says. “Yes,” I say. “Does that surprise you?” “Sorta,” she says. “It’s just… I never thought of you as someone with a
I’m scrolling through my Facebook feed when I see it. It’s a post from someone who’s not my friend but I have a lot of
I can still remember the first time I tasted cilantro. It was in this tiny Vietnamese restaurant in California, having traveled there from Maine for a prestigious musical competition. I was sitting there with my dear friend and bandmate trying my best to appear sophisticated as she suggested delicacies for us to order.
“You’re feeding the troll. You need to stop replying to him.” “Well, I don’t. Unless he says something wrong.” “You see what you did there?
I woke in bits, like all children, piecemeal over the years. I discovered myself and the world, and forgot them, and discovered them again. -Annie
It can be a difficult balance to strike in polyamory: How to add new partners to an existing relationship system without upsetting the relationships that
I learned a long time ago that when you want to express your condolences to someone who is grieving a death, simple is best. Especially
I published an essay here recently that compared a rough spot in an otherwise happy relationship to a freak cold day in a warm climate:
It’s not cool to admit this, but I have times when I worry you’ve ruined me for other people. Even if I wanted to actively
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