PQ Series

PQ 2.7 — Am I focusing on an idealized fantasy more than on making organic connections with real people?

PQ 2.6 — How much space do I leave for new partners’ needs?

PQ 2.5 — Can I accommodate change, even unexpected change or change I don’t like?

PQ 2.4 — If my relationship changes, is that okay?

PQ 2.3 – Am I flexible in what I’m looking for?

PQ 2.2 — What configurations am I open to? Am I looking for a particular configuration because I’m afraid that others might be more scary or more threatening?

PQ 2.1 — What are my needs in relationships? Are they attached to specific people? That is, do I need these things generally, or do I need them just from certain people?

PQ 1.7 – If I am already in a relationship, does my desire for others come from my dissatisfaction or unhappiness with my current relationship? If I were in a relationship that met my needs, would I still want multiple partners?

PQ 1.6 – How do I define commitment? Is it possible for me to commit to more than one person at a time, and if so, what would those commitments look like?

PQ 1.5 – How important is transparency to me? If I have more than one lover, am I happy with them knowing about each other? If they have other lovers, am I happy knowing them?