I recently posted an article about jealousy baiting. In it, I talk about two situations in which someone who had been intimate with a partner… Read More »When Your Partner Is the One Doing the Jealousy Baiting
I’ve been working through something very painful lately. Something that I’ve barely spoken about with anyone. Basically, just my nearest and dearest. And even with… Read More »If You’ve Ever Been Jealousy Baited, You’re Not Alone. And You’re Not Stupid for Trusting People.
While jealousy may be a very strong emotional signal, it’s not a very specific one. As I’ve written before, it’s easy to panic when you experience… Read More »6 Things Jealousy Doesn’t Mean
PQ 18.3 — Am I prepared to face uncomfortable feelings such as jealousy, insecurity and fear about my partner’s loyalty and to put in the… Read More »PQ 18.3 — Am I prepared to face uncomfortable feelings such as jealousy, insecurity and fear about my partner’s loyalty and to put in the work required to overcome them?
PQ 16.11 — How do I handle my own feelings of jealousy? * I’ve written quite a bit about the ways I’ve found to productively… Read More »PQ 16.11 — How do I handle my own feelings of jealousy?
PQ 16.7 — What accommodations do I make if one of my partners experiences jealousy? * You know, when it comes to my anchor partner,… Read More »PQ 16.7 — What accommodations do I make if one of my partners experiences jealousy?
There are few things in this world that are as attention-getting as a crying baby. Babies cry as a form of communication. It’s one of… Read More »Dealing with Your Own Jealousy Is a Lot Like Caring for a Crying Baby
“Ugh,” I say. “You okay?” he says. “Yeah, my neck just hurts.” I rub the sore muscle, frowning. “No biggie. It happens sometimes.” “Oh, mind… Read More »Cultivating Compersion Can Be a Helpful Distraction from the Pain of Tackling Jealousy and Insecurity.
As I’ve mentioned before, jealousy is a very strong emotional signal — but it’s not a very specific one. It’s easy to panic when you… Read More »Demotion & Displacement: 2 More Things Jealousy Can Mean
We’ve all been there. Driving down the road. Minding your own damn business. Just trying to get where you need to go — when the… Read More »Jealousy Is a Check Engine Light
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