Why I Didn’t Want to Start a Discord Server & Why I’m So Glad I Did
I said no the first dozen times that it was suggested to me. I was so wrong.
I said no the first dozen times that it was suggested to me. I was so wrong.
There’s something about that time when you’re not really dating, but you’ve identified compatibility. And you’re still sorting out the particulars, figuring it all out. Getting to know each other. Enjoying that process. Y’know… pre-dating.
When it came to our relationship, I did everything “wrong” — and it turned out okay.
It’s easy for me put myself in other people’s shoes. Sometimes — I’d say most of the time — this comes in handy. But other times? Not so much. And it can be tough for me to stay fixed in my own perspective when I need to and to advocate for what I want.
I’ve learned to pay very close attention to the way I forget in my relationships. What am I forgetting? What am I remembering? It makes all the difference.
Meta-emotions are how you feel and think about feelings — your own and others.’
Is it actually a good strategy to give other people the benefit of the doubt if you want a happy life?
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