How to Set Boundaries Without Hurting People
Have you written anything about how to set boundaries without hurting people? I struggle with worrying that I’m going to hurt people when I set… Read More »How to Set Boundaries Without Hurting People
Have you written anything about how to set boundaries without hurting people? I struggle with worrying that I’m going to hurt people when I set… Read More »How to Set Boundaries Without Hurting People
Hi Page, I hear a lot of talk about how it’s important to set healthy boundaries. And while I was initially very skeptical of this… Read More »Setting Healthy Boundaries Without Shutting People Out Entirely Is Like Helping Someone Study But Not Letting Them Plagiarize
What boundaries should I set around problems within my partners’ other relationships? * The specific boundaries I’ve set at any given time in relationship systems… Read More »Polyamory Toolbox: Mother-In-Law Boundaries
PQ 21.7 — Do I let problems in the relationships around me affect me? How do I assert boundaries around problems that aren’t mine? *… Read More »PQ 21.7 — Do I let problems in the relationships around me affect me? How do I assert boundaries around problems that aren’t mine?
PQ 16.6 – What boundaries do I set for myself in relation to each of my partners? * For anyone looking for a basic introduction… Read More »PQ 16.6 – What boundaries do I set for myself in relation to each of my partners?
PQ 9.13 — Am I afraid to express my boundaries? Do I feel they won’t be respected? * Am I Afraid to Express My Boundaries?… Read More »PQ 9.13 — Am I afraid to express my boundaries? Do I feel they won’t be respected?
I’m a very sex-positive person. And hypersexual, actually. And I definitely subscribe to the ideal that Easton and Hardy famously expressed in The Ethical Slut: “Sex… Read More »The Difference Between Sex Geekery and Dirty Talk: Arousal and Poor Boundaries
Especially when you’re not used to it, setting boundaries with people can be difficult. A recovering people pleaser myself, I’ve struggled a lot with it.… Read More »Getting to “No” You: Setting Boundaries Reveals People’s True Natures
PQ 3.2 — Have I sought input from everyone affected? Have I obtained their consent where my decision overlaps their personal boundaries? (Chapter 3 questions are… Read More »PQ 3.2 — Polyamory and Boundaries, First Degree, Second Degree, and Beyond
Some people need you sick to find you useful and want you around.