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Advice Friend

Ask Page: Can He Force Me Into Mono/Poly Just Because He’s a Dominant?

Hi Page, I’m kind of new to this whole thing, being kinky and poly. Been talking to someone, and I have doubts. I would love

July 2, 2018

Relationships

The Details Are What Make Me Feel Loved… Not the Grand Gestures

I think, given the choice, I prefer a little authentic fuss to some big fuss that’s done solely to impress other people.

October 6, 2021

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Mental Health

Those Days When You’re Still Paying Off the Emotional Debt from the Day Before

It’s one of those days. Sometimes I get so damned tired of the questions my brain asks me that I can’t answer. Some days I

June 8, 2020

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Relationships

When Public Displays of Affection on Social Media Are Hiding Unhappiness

I’ve always been someone who posts positive things about partners on social media. Always. I post positive things when things are going well. I post

August 8, 2019

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Relationships

It’s Freeing to Do Your Own Thing, Even When You’re Very Committed to Someone Else

Recently, my nesting partner Justin decided to switch over to a low-fat diet. Since I normally serve as the official meal planner for our house,

April 12, 2018

Advice Friend

Ask Page: Whatever Gloats Your Boat

Hi Page, I’m newer to polyamory, at least in practice. In theory, I’ve wanted to be in an open relationship for quite some time, but

September 7, 2018

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Survival

When Everyone’s Hurting, It’s Not a Contest

Pain is fairly binary. While it’s true that some things can hurt more than others, even a relatively small setback at the wrong time can

April 9, 2020

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Polyamory

Sneakiarchy, Secret Hierarchy & Dishonest Egalitarianism

In polyamorous circles, hierarchy can sometimes be a dirty word, depending on your audience. Some folks will get offended at even the mere mention of

November 1, 2018

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Relationships

What Relationship Deescalations Are and How They’re Different Than Breakups

What’s deescalation? It sounds like you basically pulling back and becoming more distant from your partner. Is it basically a slow breakup as opposed to

April 11, 2018

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Ask Page: Can He Force Me Into Mono/Poly Just Because He’s a Dominant?

The Details Are What Make Me Feel Loved… Not the Grand Gestures

Those Days When You’re Still Paying Off the Emotional Debt from the Day Before

It’s Freeing to Do Your Own Thing, Even When You’re Very Committed to Someone Else

Ask Page: Whatever Gloats Your Boat

Sneakiarchy, Secret Hierarchy & Dishonest Egalitarianism

What Relationship Deescalations Are and How They’re Different Than Breakups

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