Relationships

Letting Go of a Need for Greatness Is How You Improve

“Hands Off That Guilt!”: Emotional Loan Sharks and Guilt Without an Expiration Date

PQ 8.2 — Am I uncertain about the value my partner sees in me? Am I not sure why my partner wants to be with me?

PQ 7.8 — Does my communication show that I take responsibility for my actions and emotions?

The Other Woman? Was Who I Became: Autonomy Threat in Relationships

Your Friendly Neighborhood Relationship Anarchist

PQ 7.7 — What do I do to make sure it’s safe for my partners to communicate with me, and to let them know it’s safe?

I Wanna Be Stupid With You, You Bring Out the Idiot in Me

9 Things Polyamorists Can Learn From Monogamy

PQ 7.4 — Do I perceive criticism in my partner’s statements even if they aren’t directly critical?