PQ Series

PQ 25.7 — Who else is affected by my decision to be out or closeted? Do I understand the effect my decision will have on them?

PQ 25.6 — If I am thinking of staying closeted, is it because I face genuine and serious risks, or am I concerned about being inconvenienced or losing status?

PQ 25.5 — What risks do I face — including personal, professional, or physical — in being public about my polyamorous relationships? Are these risks I can afford to take?

PQ 25.4 — If I am thinking about staying closeted, how will I feel about concealing my important relationships from people who are close to me?

PQ 25.3 — Who in my life is important for me to be able to talk to about my relationships? Whom do I think it’s important for my partners to meet?

PQ 25.2 — Do I feel like I have friends I can discuss relationship problems with who will not blame polyamory as the problem?

PQ 25.1 — Do I have access to a social support system that is friendly to and knowledgeable about polyamory?

PQ 24.7 — Does this person help me be the best version of myself?

PQ 24.6 — Is there anything about this person I’m hoping will change?

PQ 24.5 — Is this person available to give me what I think I want in the relationship — in terms of time, emotional intimacy, and freedom for the relationship to grow?