Needing to work together more doesn’t mean your relationship can’t work.
Just because it gets hard, it doesn’t mean you’re doomed.
If you’ve ever swept up a floor with a broom, you understand.
The first dustpan is easy, and a ton of shit comes up!
It’s so satisfying. It’s so damn easy.
But it gets harder every dustpan to get up the last little bits of dirt.
And after enough sweeping, you reach a certain point where you say,”WHAT THE HELL? THIS IS SO MUCH FUCKING WORK! OH MY GOD.”
But.. the floor isn’t actually so dirty anymore.
Do you see?