to be told by my ex-husband that I was right to divorce him, that I was right when I said I was enabling him and that going our separate ways was the right thing to do, as much as he thought I was wrong about it at the time.
We talked for hours over IM last night, and we disagree about very little, agreeing on all the big things: the divorce was the right call, and we’re both better off.
I also realized talking to him that while we do share some common values, our priorities are very different, and it astounds me that we ever made it 10 years together.