Relationships

How to Know if You’re Selfish: A Pattern of Not Giving Back

Any Particular Person: On Growing Up Catering to Difficult People

Polyamory Is Not for Perfectionists, But Neither Is Happiness.

PQ 8.4 — Do I feel that most other people are sexier, more good-looking, more worthwhile, funnier, smarter or just generally better than I am, and I am not able to compete with them?

On Odious Comparisons: From “The One I Love Last Is the One I Love Most” to “She’s Alright, I Guess”

Getting Rich by Sharing: My Unlikely Abundance Hero, the Financial Planner

Anxiety Says, “Save Often. You Never Know When There Will Be a Boss Fight.”

On Grief: The Worst Thing About Having Your Tonsils Out

Jealousy Shaming, Gatekeeping, and Honor Students: No, Really. Please Be Jealous. I Mean It.

I Thought We Had a Good Thing Because He Never Cheated on Me