Confessions of a Recovering People Pleaser

I’ll Probably Always Be a People Pleaser, But At Least I’ve Learned to Please the Right Ones

When Perspective-Taking Is Too Easy: The Challenge of Staying in Your Own Shoes

Three Zones: Self, Other, Idealized Other

Do You Have a Conflict Budget?

Growing Up Trying to Be as Little Hassle as Possible

I’ve Always Been a Sucker for a Comeback & It Almost Destroyed Me

If You’re Asking Yourself If You’re Being a Doormat, Then the Answer Is Yes

There Are So Many Transitions That the Transitions Have Transitions

The Moment When I Realized I Couldn’t Become Impossible to Disappoint

The Middle Path Between Accepting or Rejecting a Difficult Self-Belief Outright Is Testing It