PQ 3.1 — Have I disclosed all relevant information to everyone affected by my decision?

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PQ 3.1 — Have I disclosed all relevant information to everyone affected by my decision? (Chapter 3 questions are all asked in the context of ones to ask to evaluate whether your choices are ethical.)

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Dating the Same Girls: Poly Rivalry and Good Taste

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“What would be the hardest thing for you?” I asked Rob.

“You mean, what would really push my buttons?” he replied.

“Yeah.”

He leaned back on the wall behind the bed. “It’s a tough question. I don’t have a lot of jealousy.”

I nodded. It had taken some doing to explain to Rob why his dating my ex-girlfriend might be difficult for me.  » Read more

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