Hello Page, First of all, I want to thank you so much for your blog! I take a lot of support and encouragement from your… Read More »The Overstressed Hinge: Stuck in the Middle & Playing Tom-Toms
PQ 12.9 — Do I understand the needs my partner is seeking to meet by requesting veto, and have I considered alternative ways of meeting… Read More »PQ 12.9 — Do I understand the needs my partner is seeking to meet by requesting veto, and have I considered alternative ways of meeting those needs?
PQ 12.6 — Do I use the word veto to describe something other than an ability to unilaterally end a partner’s relationship — for example,… Read More »PQ 12.6 — Do I use the word veto to describe something other than an ability to unilaterally end a partner’s relationship — for example, when I give input to my partners about how I feel about their other relationships? If so, why? Is there something about the word that reassures me in a way that negotiation and input do not?
PQ 12.3 — What do I believe will happen if I ask a partner to end another relationship, and he or she says no? Why… Read More »PQ 12.3 — What do I believe will happen if I ask a partner to end another relationship, and he or she says no? Why will that thing happen?
PQ 12.1 — Under what circumstances do I feel it’s appropriate for me to use veto? * Welcome to Chapter 12! I futz about on Quora… Read More »PQ 12.1 — Under what circumstances do I feel it’s appropriate for me to use veto?
PQ 3.3 — Does my decision impose obligations or expectations on others without their input or consent? * That distinction between setting a personal boundary and… Read More »PQ 3.3 — Veto Power: Are You Their Parent or Their Partner?
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