Is It Always Good That Something Is Relatable?
While it feels good when something is relatable, is it always good? Or are there times when memes simply give us the permission not to do the work to change and grow?
While it feels good when something is relatable, is it always good? Or are there times when memes simply give us the permission not to do the work to change and grow?
After a protracted period of soul searching and agonizing, I decided to share my feelings with him. I thought about how to phrase it. And… Read More »Why It’s Hard to Get Advice When You’re Looking for Validation
I was as hard headed as they come when asking for what I needed. In my case, it was being fed a steady stream of… Read More »When Dating Someone New Gives You a Better Look at Your Own Annoying Behaviors & Makes You Appreciate Your Other Partners More
PQ 14.8 — Has this agreement been successful in meeting the needs it was intended to meet? * In a previous life, I worked as… Read More »PQ 14.8 — Has this agreement been successful in meeting the needs it was intended to meet?
I recently discovered an easy way that you can pull up your entire search history. So of course I took the bait. I figured what… Read More »I Hate When I Have Problems I Can’t Google
A few days ago, I launched my first book, Poly Land: My Brutally Honest Adventures in Polyamory, a memoir that shares (maybe overshares) what I went… Read More »Why I Wrote the Memoir First: Validation Before Instruction
PQ 6.5 — Do I look for hidden meanings in other people’s words? Do I bury my real meaning? * She is the most beautiful… Read More »PQ 6.5 — Do I look for hidden meanings in other people’s words? Do I bury my real meaning?
Even though I’ve recently set up this public blog presence of my charmed life and kinky times, I’ve been posting introspection and navel-gazing on predominantly… Read More »Why Write?