Unicorn Ranchers: Don’t Hunt, Create a Sanctuary

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Unicorn hunters get a bum rap in polyamory, despite being very common, especially among poly newbies. A “unicorn” is a polyamorous, bisexual woman who will date both members of a couple. The couple that opens up a previously closed relationship and is looking for this unicorn to form a 3-person relationship, they’re the unicorn hunters.  » Read more

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Yelling at Technology: Don’t Treat People-y Things Like Things

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Martin and Veaux’s Polyamorous Secondary Relationship Card has been making the rounds again lately.  A bunch of folks in my friends circle have been having good discussions about it. There’s a reason it resonates. People still struggle to clearly communicate their wants and needs in relationships and practice informed consent.

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