I supported myself for several years as a professional musician. These days I mostly play in private, using it as a way to unpack thoughts… Read More »Music Is Enjoyable Because of Expectation, Surprise & Uncertainty
It doesn’t matter whether she talks to him for ten seconds or two hours. My mother always says, “I love you,” before she says goodbye… Read More »When You Treat Every Conversation Like It Could Be Your Last
Well, that didn’t take long. I worried it’d take a long time to find someone who wanted to buy my house, which is in a… Read More »Don’t Count Your Chickens Before They’re Hatched But Make Sure to Build a Coop
PQ 8.2 — Am I uncertain about the value my partner sees in me? Am I not sure why my partner wants to be with… Read More »PQ 8.2 — Am I uncertain about the value my partner sees in me? Am I not sure why my partner wants to be with me?
PQ 5.4 — When I think about the future, what does it look like? Is there room for change and growth? (see also 2.4 and 2.5)… Read More »PQ 5.4 — When I think about the future, what does it look like? Is there room for change and growth?
I recently finished an excellent volume of essays entitled Extremism and the Psychology of Uncertainty edited by Michael A. Hogg and Danielle L. Blaylock. Each… Read More »The Pidgin Psychobabble Chronicles: #2 Extremism and Uncertainty
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