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The Less I Defend Myself, the Happier I Feel

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I’m very unlikely to worry about defending myself against baseless attacks. Instead, I focus more on moving forward and making more things I’d like to see in the world.

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Learning to Argue Forward Instead of Talking Back

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Once I started to argue forward instead of talking back, what happened was astonishing. Instead of getting mired down infinitely in non-productive squabbles and tanking my productivity, I was made more productive by critical comments