PQ 2.7 — Am I focusing on an idealized fantasy more than on making organic connections with real people?

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PQ 2.7 — Am I focusing on an idealized fantasy more than on making organic connections with real people?

Thanksgiving 2010

It was a long drive from Ohio back home to Maine. Shorter than the Greyhound though. Seth and I had taken the bus out to visit Rob and Michelle. We’d spent 2 weeks in Ohio checking out the house where we would live in the spring,  » Read more

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Body Polytic: Why Poly People Don’t Like Being Called Swingers

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One of the most common questions I run into as I talk with polyamorous folks and frequent forums is: Why do poly people get upset when you call them swingers? What’s so bad about being a swinger?

I’ve struggled with this question a lot myself. I used to get really upset when people would call me a swinger.  » Read more

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