Your Toxic Ex’s Self-Deception
I know it’s hard to watch the way your toxic ex has rewritten history. The distorted way they talk about the time you spent together — and what it all means now that it’s over.
I know it’s hard to watch the way your toxic ex has rewritten history. The distorted way they talk about the time you spent together — and what it all means now that it’s over.
There’s no way of getting around it. When a bunch of bad things happen, it’s easy to think you deserved it.
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