I knew I was in trouble the first time you held me. I felt like I was four years old again then and that my father was carrying me up the stairs because I’d fallen asleep on the couch.
You felt solid in a way that nothing had. Not for years.
I knew then that nothing would feel the same after you. » Read more
PQ 12.8 — Can I think of a way to make a new partner feel safe in a relationship with me under these conditions?
While the Chapter 12 questions have all been about veto, I really like this question in a broader sense, as a kind of self-check:
Is the way I’m treating my partner making them feel safe in the relationship? » Read more