Poly Debriefing #2: More
These days I’m polyamorous in spirit, monogamous in practice. It feels disingenuous to claim that I am one or the other completely. Even though my… Read More »Poly Debriefing #2: More
These days I’m polyamorous in spirit, monogamous in practice. It feels disingenuous to claim that I am one or the other completely. Even though my… Read More »Poly Debriefing #2: More
Photo by em-volleyball-1-6 /CC BY Compersion is so fantastic and ever-present for me (even when I’m sexually exclusive) that it gets to go first, and… Read More »Poly Debriefing #1: Compersion
I’ll never forget that night. November 1999, my first semester of college. I had gone to a party hosted by the music frat. I knew… Read More »Respect
And in hindsight, that should have told me something. “She doesn’t have to know how serious we are yet. She just wouldn’t understand.” I thought… Read More »It Always Felt Like An Affair
This is the term Skyspook came up with to describe myself with regards with monogamy/non-monogamy. I think my natural orientation is for monogamy, the simplicity.… Read More »Mono-Flexible
Dieting has been very much a part of my psyche since I first started going to Weight Watchers meetings at 3 years old. I found… Read More »Weighty Matters
Cowboy. Somebody who figures that these alternative relationships are unstable, and consciously or unconsciously tries to pull one of the partners off into a monogamous… Read More »See You Later, Space Cowboy
The stigma of having multiple partners is ubiquitous. It’s especially obvious in “normal” society with the standard tradition of monogamy or at least serial monogamy… Read More »The Question of Promiscuity, OR Ain’t Gonna Shame Ya
Polyamory. It’s a woman’s world. Don’t look at me like that. 😛 I’m not hating on men! I have character witnesses that will testify that… Read More »Poly With a Penis
It’s been a crazy couple of years socially speaking. A year and a half ago, my husband and I opened our marriage. A few months… Read More »Body Acceptance