Polyamory and Reformed Cheaters: Fessing Up is Hard to Do

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Polyamory is Harder for Reformed Cheaters

“Polyamory? That’s something that’s for reformed cheaters, right?”

And I want to say no when people say that, but it’s a great deal more complicated than that.

While there are plenty of people who become polyamorous without ever being physically unfaithful as monogamous people, there are others who did.  » Read more

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Truth Drip: Titrating How Much We Share and When

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It’s difficult to know how much to share about what goes on (sexually and otherwise) with one of your partners with another. It’s like titrating the truth, just like you would medicine in a hospital — a truth drip.

On the surface, it seems so easy.┬áBut you gotta be careful! You can overdose by saying too much or by saying too little.  » Read more

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