When You Find Someone You Love Sticking Up For
I remember the first time I ever stuck up for you for a simple reason: Because it was easy. It was the right thing to do.… Read More »When You Find Someone You Love Sticking Up For
I remember the first time I ever stuck up for you for a simple reason: Because it was easy. It was the right thing to do.… Read More »When You Find Someone You Love Sticking Up For
“I was just thinking about Love’s Baby Soft,” I said. “Oh?” Justin replied. I nodded. “It’s the way I smelled from 12 to 19. A… Read More »When Someone Can Make an Old World Look New
There’s this way that you pull me to you when we’re both half-asleep that tells me you’re something different with me in your life. That… Read More »What Established Relationship Energy Feels Like
“What’s wrong?” I ask him. “It’s gonna sound silly,” he warns me. “That’s okay,” I say. “Tell me anyway.” He hasn’t been polyamorous for terribly… Read More »Why Don’t You Shave Your Legs for Me Anymore?
“You guys aren’t married, are you?” our cab driver asks us. “Actually we are,” I say. “Newlyweds?” he asks. “We’ve been together eight years,” I… Read More »“You Don’t Act Married. You Like Each Other Too Much.”
As I’ve written a few times now, I take my time when it comes to dating new people. I’m nearly always friends first. Sometimes I… Read More »9 Reasons I Move Slowly In Relationships (And It’s Not Because I Don’t Care)
It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. -Friedrich Nietzsche * I tell him that I don’t… Read More »Don’t Stop Being Friends Just Because You Start Dating
Whenever possible, I try to offer advice that applies to all sorts of relationships, whether that’s polyamorous, monogamous, or somewhere in between. And when I’m… Read More »4 Things I’ve Found to Be True While Dating Polyamorously Regardless of Current Role
It’s no trick loving someone at their best. Love is loving them at their worst. -Tom Stoppard * You’re really beautiful, the stranger writes. *… Read More »It’s So Easy to Admire Someone From Afar, Tough to Appreciate Them Up Close
PQ 13.5 — Are there specific things I can ask my partners to do for me to help me feel loved and cared for? *… Read More »PQ 13.5 — Are there specific things I can ask my partners to do for me to help me feel loved and cared for?