Today’s post is a guest post from John.
This is John’s third guest post for Poly Land. Here are the other articles he’s written for us:
Here’s John’s regular haunt, » Read more
“I’d be okay with you getting a girlfriend. But no other dudes, okay?” he says.
“Okay,” she says. Outwardly, she smiles. She’s glad to have the freedom to pursue other women.
But as soon as he leaves the room, her smile starts to fade. She’s not sure what, but something doesn’t feel quite right. » Read more
“You’re poly?” he says. “I feel kind of bad for you.”
I raise an eyebrow. “Oh?”
“Everyone knows that polyamory is just a thing that straight dudes made up so that their girlfriends will let them have some extra sex without looking like a creep.”
“What?” » Read more
One of the most common questions I run into as I talk with polyamorous folks and frequent forums is: Why do poly people get upset when you call them swingers? What’s so bad about being a swinger?
I’ve struggled with this question a lot myself. I used to get really upset when people would call me a swinger. » Read more
There was a girl I used to date during my open marriage. One day when we were eating sushi at one of my favorite restaurants, she confessed to me that she was a “chubby chaser” when it came to men. Her fiance (a heavier guy) was fine with her dating me, and she said she thought Ex-Husband (also overweight) was hot and that she’d date him as well but that it made her fiance too insecure; » Read more