Although we still have a long way to go in regards to mapping things directly to areas of the brain, I have to admit —… Read More »People Who Get Goosebumps When Listening to Music Experience More Intense Emotions
It doesn’t happen very often, but every once in a great while, I fall so deeply in love with someone or something that I don’t… Read More »Loving Without Worrying About Whether You’re Loved in Return
I was 17 years old. On a trip to another school about 2.5 hours away with my high school jazz ensemble. The band director was… Read More »What Happens When a Rivalry Is One-Sided
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Hi Page, Any recommendations for songs with polyamory-friendly lyrics? * Oh man, oh man, have I ever been there. Listening to a romantic song and… Read More »The Quest for Non-Monogamy-Friendly Song Lyrics
I spent many years working as a professional musician. Like a lot of folks, I played several instruments. Piano was mostly a private endeavor, primarily… Read More »When It Comes to Love, It’s All About That Base
A lot of my favorite poly bloggers share a similar story: They came to polyamory naturally. Monogamy just wasn’t a thing that they did well… Read More »Everything I Know About Polyamory, I Learned as a Gigging Musician
PQ 8.10 — Am I afraid that if my partner has sex with someone else, she will start comparing me whenever we have sex?
PQ 8.10 — Am I afraid that if my partner has sex with someone else, she will start comparing me whenever we have sex? * I… Read More »PQ 8.10 — Am I afraid that if my partner has sex with someone else, she will start comparing me whenever we have sex?