4 Reasons It’s Hard to Write
Here are 4 reasons why it could be hard to write, even if you have the time and really want to.
Here are 4 reasons why it could be hard to write, even if you have the time and really want to.
I know you don’t think you can do it. But you can do it. I can see you can do it.
It takes so much more energy to get back into the groove when you’ve jumped out than it does to just roll in the groove once you’re well seated there.
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If impulse control is your problem, polyamory is not your solution.
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