As I’ve said many times in the past, I don’t do a lot of online dating. I tend to be unconventional in the way I… Read More »I’m Waaaaay Pickier About Partner Selection Now That I’m Polyamorous
Hi Page, I’ve been reading your blog for several months now. I like your writing because I feel like you talk about polyamory and monogamy… Read More »Monogamy as a Choice Rather Than a Default: Do We Really Need Yet Another Way to Be Incompatible?
PQ 18.4 — Am I prepared to give my monogamous partner time and space to process his feelings about my polyamory?
PQ 18.4 — Am I prepared to give my monogamous partner time and space to process his feelings about my polyamory? * It’s been a… Read More »PQ 18.4 — Am I prepared to give my monogamous partner time and space to process his feelings about my polyamory?
PQ 18.1 — Two Different Components of Monogamy: Not Wanting Multiple Partners & Not Wanting to Share
PQ 18.1 — Why do I identify as monogamous? Is it because I only want one partner for myself, or because I want my partner to… Read More »PQ 18.1 — Two Different Components of Monogamy: Not Wanting Multiple Partners & Not Wanting to Share
It doesn’t feel great to admit, but I used to bitterly dislike anyone my current partner had dated in the past. This boiled down to… Read More »5 Reasons Why I Used to Hate My Partner’s Exes & Why I (Mostly) Don’t Anymore
Like most people, I grew up being told that when it comes to sex that men are the gas, women are the brakes. However, when… Read More »10 Things That Happened When I Exclusively Dated a Man Who Wanted Sex Way Less Often Than I Did
Was there anything more disappointing as a kid than when you got to your hotel and the pool was closed? It looked so lovely in… Read More »The Pool Is Closed, But It Looked So Lovely in the Brochure
“You know, it’s funny,” she says. “I’ve known you for what seems like forever.” “Gee, thanks,” I say, smirking. “In a good way,” she says.… Read More »As Monogamy Changes, My Monogamous Friends and I Agree More Often
I often feel very alien when I find myself amongst a a pack of other polyamorous educators. It’s very common to hear a familiar story… Read More »I Wasn’t Always Polyamorous. Dating Was Like a Game of Musical Chairs.