I had an unsettling experience recently. While cleaning my desk, I stumbled upon a cache of notes and cards from my husband. I’d clearly saved… Read More »Sometimes Forgetting Is Good for a Relationship; Other Times It Isn’t
“You write an awful lot about other people, how kind they are to you, and how much you appreciate them. I find myself thinking that… Read More »I Can’t Tell You What Kind of Partner I Am, and That’s Okay
There’s been a theme lately as I’m listening to people’s troubles and giving out advice. You can tell a lot about a situation by what… Read More »What’s Forgiveness Orientation & How Does It Affect Relationships?
I knew I was in trouble the first time we went to bed, and afterwards he sighed and said, “Well, I guess I have to… Read More »Keeping Score: What It Is, Why It’s Bad for Your Relationships
Today’s post is a guest post from John. This is John’s third guest post for Poly Land. Here are the other articles he’s written for… Read More »There Can Be Only One!: Toxic Masculinity & the One Penis Policy
“I’m always doing everything for everyone else,” she says. “And where does it get me?” I’m taken aback. I’m not sure where this is coming… Read More »Kindness Misers: “I’m Always Doing Everything for Everyone Else”