Jealousy Is a Check Engine Light
We’ve all been there. Driving down the road. Minding your own damn business. Just trying to get where you need to go — when the… Read More »Jealousy Is a Check Engine Light
We’ve all been there. Driving down the road. Minding your own damn business. Just trying to get where you need to go — when the… Read More »Jealousy Is a Check Engine Light
“So I’m seeing this guy,” she says. “And he says he’s polyamorous, but…” “But?” “He’s so not okay with my seeing other people. He has a bunch… Read More »3 Ways of Being Polyamorous: Wanting, Having, Sharing
Today’s article is a guest blog post by Matthew Shadrake. Matt is a polyamorous switch and a big ole softie. He has previously contributed 3… Read More »Who Shouldn’t Be Polyamorous?
“Ugh, what is wrong with me? I’m so freaking bad at poly,” she says. “Why do you say that?” I say. “I’m the poly vet… Read More »Poly Shame Spiral: Swimming Through Water and Yelling at Ourselves for Getting Wet
“Is it normal to get the hang of the compersion thing when it comes to romantic relationships? But struggle when it comes to your friends?”… Read More »Building Others Up: Attacking Zero Sum Thinking at Its Source
This post has is now available as a video on our YouTube channel: PQ 8.10 — Am I afraid that if my partner has sex with… Read More »PQ 8.10 — Am I afraid that if my partner has sex with someone else, she will start comparing me whenever we have sex?
It’s usually one of first things you’re asked when someone finds out that you’re polyamorous: “But don’t you get jealous?” I get asked it a… Read More »6 Other Things that Jealousy Can Mean
If you’re an ethically nonmonogamous person and haven’t heard of Terri Conley, PhD, you’re missing out. Dr. Conley is “a social psychologist, a feminist, and… Read More »Stigma, Funding, and Getting Off the Fringe: An Interview with Dr. Terri Conley
PQ. 8.5 — Do I believe that if I am not jealous, I don’t really love my partner? * “All this work on unlearning jealousy and… Read More »PQ 8.5 — But What About the Flattering Jealousy?
PQ 8.3 — Does the idea of my partner having another lover mean that whatever my partner sees in me will no longer be valid, or… Read More »PQ 8.3 — Does the idea of my partner having another lover mean that whatever my partner sees in me will no longer be valid, or that my partner will want to choose that other lover over me?