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You can make yourself go ballistic if you read meaning into every little action.
I had a friend once upon a time. When I met her, she had a couple of strong business endeavors going on. I looked up… Read More »You Can’t Force People to Be Happy for You By Being Happy for Them
I’m told that I come off very secure. It’s a surprise to even people who have known me well that I’ve ever struggled with feelings… Read More »Talking About Insecurities Can Be Like Walking a Tightrope
“You’re Just Jealous”: When Being Open About Your Insecurities Causes Partners to Assume You’re Concern Trolling
It’s been an awfully long time since I’ve had it said to me, but I can still remember the first time I had a partner… Read More »“You’re Just Jealous”: When Being Open About Your Insecurities Causes Partners to Assume You’re Concern Trolling
At this point, Poly Land has featured a number of articles on jealousy (including this article that many have found quite helpful in coping with jealousy).… Read More »Malicious Envy, Benign Envy, and Deservingness
I recently featured a letter from someone concerned that their boyfriend might be conducting a secret affair based on their social media activity. After I… Read More »Who Gets Suspicious About a Partner’s Social Media Activity?
FOMO: (noun) Fear of Missing Out. Anxiety that an exciting or interesting event may currently be happening elsewhere, often aroused by posts seen on a… Read More »FOMO, JOMO, and the Reality of Constant Comparison
I recently posted an article about jealousy baiting. In it, I talk about two situations in which someone who had been intimate with a partner… Read More »When Your Partner Is the One Doing the Jealousy Baiting
This post is now available as a video on our YouTube channel. I’ve been working through something very painful lately. Something that I’ve barely spoken… Read More »If You’ve Ever Been Jealousy Baited, You’re Not Alone. And You’re Not Stupid for Trusting People.