“Look,” I say finally, because I’m tired of worrying about it, “I’m just gonna level with you. I didn’t get you a Christmas present this… Read More »I Already Have the Best Present I Could Ever Get — Even If I Joke About Returning It
It’s been a hard day. A really hard one. I thought I had a handle on everything. I’ve been managing to be productive and stay… Read More »A Wonderful Date Night During Strange Times
“So,” he said to me, “What do you think?” “About what?” I replied. He frowned. “About the book I lent you.” “Lent” was a curious… Read More »When Gifts Have Strings Attached, They Go in Both Directions
Hi Page, I just wanted to write and thank you for your blog and your books! You are such a good teacher. I do a… Read More »The Two Things That Are Hardest for Me to Teach
It’s that time of year again. Everyone in my web is talking about what they’re getting each other for the holidays. Metamours and telemours hitting… Read More »I Wish I Enjoyed Gift-Giving More. It Really Stresses Me Out.
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The most exhausting thing I did this past week was mailing a mother’s day card back to Maine. I don’t have the best relationship with… Read More »Happy-ish Mother’s Day, Because Not All of Us Are Best Friends with Our Mom
PQ 5.6 — What values are the most important to me in myself and in others? Like a lot of people, I have multiple important… Read More »PQ 5.6 — What values are the most important to me in myself and in others?
There’s a big problem with holidays. In a word: Expectations. It can be hard enough to make sure a random Thursday in August turns out… Read More »Happy Poly-Days, Because for Some? Holidays Are Basically the Worst
I graduated this weekend. The ceremony was long, sweaty, and boring — but at the same time vital, I think, to understanding that a… Read More »Graduated
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