With Great Hinges, Comes Great Responsibility
The fantasy of being a hinge — i.e., a person in two or more relationships with partners who are not involved with one another — is quite different than the reality.
The fantasy of being a hinge — i.e., a person in two or more relationships with partners who are not involved with one another — is quite different than the reality.
People make a lot of assumptions about how polyamory would be a different way to live. Typically they assume it’s something having to do with… Read More »Polyamorous Hinge Problems: Shifting Gears Quickly
Fellow poly Clevelander Ferrett Steinmetz recently published a post called “I’m Married to Her, but I’m Not Her Primary.” What renders him secondary, Ferrett writes… Read More »I’m Married to Him, But I’m Not His Primary
One thing that is plainly obvious in Poly.Land is that there are certain people who date more than others. Their dance card is fully booked.… Read More »Poly Hinges: A Field Guide
It’s a familiar story – you start a new job. You’re nervous at first because you don’t know how you’re going to master everything they… Read More »The Curse of Polyamorous Competence