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I’m Sorry, It Does Matter to Me If You Meant to Hurt Me

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Having had a number of clearly malicious actors do hurtful things and then feebly insist after the fact that they didn’t mean to hurt me, I get it. It’s no good when folks weasel out of dubious acts after the fact, using intent as a cover. But I have to say I’ve found other circumstances where intent is crucial.

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The Way You Forget in Relationships

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I’ve learned to pay very close attention to the way I forget in my relationships. What am I forgetting? What am I remembering? It makes all the difference.