friends
It’s Far Too Easy to Confuse One Type of Friendship With Another
In a recent post, I talked about how confusing the conversations we have around love can be. As I wrote then, part of this confusion… Read More »It’s Far Too Easy to Confuse One Type of Friendship With Another
My Friends on the Kink Scene Brought Me Back to Life
2000 “It’s not the drugs,” Kurt said. “It’s the people you meet because of the drugs.” He was a heavy user and had been for… Read More »My Friends on the Kink Scene Brought Me Back to Life
I Used to Think Loving Someone Meant Never Hurting Them
I’ve changed a lot over the years. I used to think that when you loved someone it meant that their fears took precedence over your… Read More »I Used to Think Loving Someone Meant Never Hurting Them
Why Kinky Girls Are Like Cats: The Observation Period
“So how was your date?” I ask him. “I had a good time,” he says. “Nothing kinky or sexy happened. No scenes. But I liked… Read More »Why Kinky Girls Are Like Cats: The Observation Period
Go Ahead and Date Your Friends, But Break Up Well
It’s a common rule that a lot of people have when they open up their relationships: No friends. It’s likely one of those carryovers from… Read More »Go Ahead and Date Your Friends, But Break Up Well
PQ 1.2 – Do I feel there can be only one “true” love or one “real” soulmate?
Poly Question 1.2 Do I feel there can be only one “true” love or one “real” soulmate? * “Do I contradict myself? Very well, then… Read More »PQ 1.2 – Do I feel there can be only one “true” love or one “real” soulmate?
Last week was pretty excellent. Beginning of the week, we spent one evening hang/cuddle/flirting with our super rad lesbian couple friends. And then since Spooky… Read More »
You’re Not Allowed to Die
“Page, you stupid fucking whore, I love you, cut it out!” J yelled at me. I was sinking into the grass, full of innumerable shots.… Read More »You’re Not Allowed to Die
Pragmatically Chosen Family: A Checklist
A friend who does a fantastic “bitch face” A friend who is a lawyer, works for a lawyer, or has general legal savvy Someone who… Read More »Pragmatically Chosen Family: A Checklist