PQ 21.3 — Are there things I absolutely require in a relationship, and do I communicate those things?
I wrote the very first post in this series (PQ 1.1 – Have I ever felt romantic love for more than one person at the same time?) nearly two years ago, » Read more
PQ 15.1 –What are my existing commitments? How much time do they leave for new partners?
“How do you manage it all?” she says. “You’re dating three people. And you work a lot. You’re always writing.”
“I’m definitely full up right now,” » Read more
PQ 14.7 — Are the needs now the same as the needs when we agreed to this?
“I’ve never really understood permission,” he says.
We’re sitting on the floor of my office. Sipping peppermint schnapps playing a rousing game of Crazy Eights with a deck of XXX cards. » Read more
Photo by Horia Varlan / CC BY
Because “flexible” doesn’t even begin to cover it. Because I don’t know that I’m even “looking for” anything. There’s no grand objective, no artifact I’m seeking, no burning need I ache to fill. The grail is not my quest. » Read more