It’s a strange morning. I’ve been pedaling hard for weeks. Sometimes when you’re working this hard, it’s because you’ve got your eye on the prize.… Read More »Both Ambition & Fear Can Make a Person Move Quickly
It’s late. We should already be in bed. But you’re working yet another long day. Doing your best to help. Like always. That’s always been… Read More »Mindfulness Can Be About Accepting That You’re Struggling With Mindfulness
“What you do,” he said, “is just lie there with your thoughts. Don’t judge them. Just let them happen. Let yourself feel everything you’re feeling.… Read More »Pain Never Gets Any Better Unless You Confront It & Even Then It Still Takes A Very Long Time
“God, stop trapping me!” he says. It’s very loud. He’s raising his voice. I’m starting to feel very small. Very scared. “Trapping you?” I say. “I… Read More »The Other Side of Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
“You know what my ultimate polyamorous nightmare would be?” I say to him. “What’s that?” he replies. “That you’d be dating this woman who you… Read More »Looking Over My Shoulder for the Long Shadow of Cruella de Vil
“I have this one friend who’s always getting on me for having an open marriage,” she says. “Been there,” I say. “Really?” she says. “What… Read More »“How Can You Be a Parent and NOT Understand Non-Possessive Love?”
PQ 21.2 — When I am faced with conflict, how do I seek to act with courage? * Sometimes the courageous move is standing up… Read More »PQ 21.2 — When I am faced with conflict, how do I seek to act with courage?
I didn’t open up my marriage over a decade ago with an eye toward exploring kink. But that’s nonetheless what happened. After about a year… Read More »8 Lessons That I Learned From Both Polyamory and Kink