PQ 5.11 — What do I expect of others, and why?
PQ 5.11 — What do I expect of others, and why? Here are a few pieces I’ve written about the tricky nature of expectations: You… Read More »PQ 5.11 — What do I expect of others, and why?
PQ 5.11 — What do I expect of others, and why? Here are a few pieces I’ve written about the tricky nature of expectations: You… Read More »PQ 5.11 — What do I expect of others, and why?
I think polyamory is pretty awesome. Unfortunately, a lot of folks new to polyamory approach it expecting it to be a cure-all for their relationship issues. Here are 8 things that polyamory doesn’t fix.
There’s a big problem with holidays. In a word: Expectations. It can be hard enough to make sure a random Thursday in August turns out… Read More »Happy Poly-Days, Because for Some? Holidays Are Basically the Worst
I Try Smiling “You get what you expect,” the instructor says. It’s my first day of community college. We’re sitting in a small room with desks… Read More »You Get What You Expect, Kinda: Resilient People Aren’t Always Positive
PQ 2.8 — What happens if I connect with someone in a way that differs from how I want my poly relationship to look? What message… Read More »PQ 2.8 — What happens if I connect with someone in a way that differs from how I want my poly relationship to look? What message does that send to someone who doesn’t fit neatly into my dreams?
It can be as overwhelming as it is freeing. Once you move away from the standard template of what romantic relationships are supposed to be, how… Read More »Relationship Escalator: Questioning How Love Ought to Be
Poly Question 1.4
What do I want from my romantic life? Am I open to multiple sexual relationships, romantic relationships, or both? If I want more than one lover, what degree of closeness and intimacy do I expect, and what do I offer?Read More »PQ 1.4 – What do I want from my romantic life?
Every day, every way, it dawns on me more and more that no one is as good as my parents expected me to be.