The “Should Have Stayed a Play Partner” Effect

a tube of toothpaste with the cap off that has had most of the toothpaste squeezed out of it
Image by Kristopher Avila / CC BY

Have you ever met someone who is fantastic at first? There’s something fun and shiny about them.

Maybe they’re things that you’re missing in the rest of your life. That you don’t know anybody else who does well. Or can engage with you on that particular level.

Maybe these aspects are so shiny that you are quick to forgive many things that should have given you cause for concern.  » Read more

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