I had a friend once upon a time. When I met her, she had a couple of strong business endeavors going on. I looked up… Read More »You Can’t Force People to Be Happy for You By Being Happy for Them
At this point, Poly Land has featured a number of articles on jealousy (including this article that many have found quite helpful in coping with jealousy).… Read More »Malicious Envy, Benign Envy, and Deservingness
“What’s wrong?” I ask him. “It’s gonna sound silly,” he warns me. “That’s okay,” I say. “Tell me anyway.” He hasn’t been polyamorous for terribly… Read More »Why Don’t You Shave Your Legs for Me Anymore?
Jealousy is not some kind of crime. It’s a signal. Perhaps it’s a very strong emotional signal — and often not a very specific one — but… Read More »How to Be Jealous in a Productive Way (9 Steps)
“Is it normal to get the hang of the compersion thing when it comes to romantic relationships? But struggle when it comes to your friends?”… Read More »Building Others Up: Attacking Zero Sum Thinking at Its Source