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Exploring the Kink Scene Was Healthy for Me — and Boy, Did I Ever Resent That

Over a decade ago, I plunged onto the kink scene. Once I make up my mind to pursue something, I let go exuberantly, some might… Read More »Exploring the Kink Scene Was Healthy for Me — and Boy, Did I Ever Resent That

I write quite frequently about being a recovering people pleaser, including one piece I wrote for a client about the 10 biggest lessons I learned… Read More »Confessions of a Recovering People Pleaser: Discovering Places Between Pushover and Pusher

Today’s article is a guest post by Fay Creature. Fay Creature has been practicing polyamory since 1998 and kink since 2003. She is queer –… Read More »Managing a D/s Dynamic When Your Partner Faces Mental Health Challenges

Hi Page, I’ve been struggling with something for a while now and need advice and support from someone who might understand. Here’s the situation: I’m… Read More »“I’m in Love With My Domme, But She Doesn’t Love Me Back. What Should I Do?”

Hi Page, I’ve been reading your blog for about a year now. It’s my favorite one. Thank you for writing every day, for being there.… Read More »Ask Page: How Did You Find Such a Good Dominant?

Hi Page, I’m kind of new to this whole thing, being kinky and poly. Been talking to someone, and I have doubts. I would love… Read More »Ask Page: Can He Force Me Into Mono/Poly Just Because He’s a Dominant?

Hi Page, So I’m extremely new to BDSM, been around for just under a year. My question for you is what advice do you have… Read More »Ask Page: My Partner Only Dominates Me When It Suits Him. What Should I Do?

What is the difference between a dominant and someone who just uses it as an excuse to be controlling? * 1. Consent Is an Important… Read More »3 Differences Between a Dominant & Someone Who Just Uses it as an Excuse to Be Controlling

My husband and I are polyamorous. With my husband, Brett† , I co-parent, co-habitate, share finances, own businesses together. With one of my boyfriends, Dale† , I… Read More »Ask Page: How Do I Help My New Dominant Feel Special?

I’ll never forget my first public scene with Justin. It was on a busy night at the dungeon. A play party. “What would you like… Read More »How My Power Exchange (D/s) Relationship Gave Me Courage