Dating Someone Who Doesn’t Seem to Need You Can Be Difficult

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My entire life I’ve been that person that others feel comfortable opening up to. I’m not sure what it is, exactly. Maybe it’s because I’m so average looking, like a movie extra. The girl next door. Cute when viewed from certain angles but not terribly distinctive in appearance.

I personally find it weirdly easy to form positive impressions of new folks when they look like people from my past I’m quite fond of (transference,  » Read more

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Moved to Tears

I literally love my husband so much that it makes me cry.

When I stop to think about it, really, really think about it… well, it’s over. Waterworks.

I’ve told him before that this happens to me and asked if he did the same. He said it doesn’t, that we’re different people so we’re going to experience love in separate ways.  » Read more

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