Many People Think They Are Fair While Only Seeing What They Want to See

a bunch of playing cards. An ace of hearts is front and center and clear. Several others are out of focus and blurry in the background
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I’m sitting in the courtroom trying to pay careful attention to the questions the lawyers are asking my fellow potential jurors. I know it’s unlikely that I’ll even get to speak. I was called last in my pool. I’ll only be asked to actively participate in voir dire — the jury selection process whereby we’re questioned by both lawyers to determine how suitable we are to serve —  » Read more

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The Taxonomy of Cacti, or Poly Curiosity Killed the Cat’s Social Life

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It’s fairly easy to generate a plethora of positive-sounding reasons why someone might be a good fit for polyamory. You could be a person who loves freely, without boundaries, secure, set on enriching your own life and as many other lives as possible through unique personal connections, intent on having myriad intense life experiences.

Me?  » Read more

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