I am lying in bed trying to ignore the heaviness in my stomach. From stress. So much stress. I’m rereading a book from The Baby-Sitters… Read More »I Comfort Myself by Rereading Old Books; You Declutter and Organize.
Let’s say your partner is seeing someone new, the reader wrote. And you don’t really like them. What do you do? I nodded when I… Read More »Dealing With Difficult Metamours
Most people know the word “ruthless.” It’s fairly commonly used. It means “having or showing no pity for others.” And “pragmatic” means “practical.” So a… Read More »The Ruthful Pragmatist: You Can Tell A Lot About a Person From the Trade-Offs They Choose
It’s happy hour at the bar with Skyspook’s coworkers. I’m his designated driver and feeling a bit out of place as a plus one. Most… Read More »How Are We Supposed to Really Understand Sex If We’re Not Comfortable Talking About It?
“I’m really sorry I can’t be there,” I said to Skyspook, hugging him goodbye at the door. He looked so good in his tuxedo that… Read More »Going It Alone… Kinda: A Life Full of Love and Understanding
It started over a year ago with a letter from a reader: Do you have any advice for couples who are about to open up… Read More »A Geek’s Guide to Unicorn Ranching
I’m writing to you to thank you for the Post-It tucked inside the front cover of the copy of Women Who Love Too Much I… Read More »Fan Letter to a Total Stranger
This past Christmas, Skyspook gave me a Kindle Touch. Every year, his employer lets them choose a gift from the company from a list of… Read More »Happy Endings
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