Gaslighting
Gaslighting: A common form of brainwashing in which an abuser tries to falsely convince the victim that the victim is defective, for any purpose whatsoever,… Read More »Gaslighting
Gaslighting: A common form of brainwashing in which an abuser tries to falsely convince the victim that the victim is defective, for any purpose whatsoever,… Read More »Gaslighting
You know it’s going to be an interesting meeting when the first item on the agenda is “Please fist me.” Ok, I’ll rewind. It started… Read More »Choosing
Before my explorations in kink with Skyspook, there was another man, Ex-Boyfriend in Cleveland. I met Ex-Boyfriend through a girl I was seeing as he… Read More »Regrowing My Claws
“A lot of people run a race to see who is fastest. I run to see who has the most guts, who can punish himself… Read More »Portion Control
Short answer: No. Long answer: People within the kink community who don’t have histories of childhood trauma and abuse are just as common as those… Read More »Do I Think That Past Trauma Made Me Kinky?
There was a girl I used to date during my open marriage. One day when we were eating sushi at one of my favorite restaurants,… Read More »One Size Fits All
Stop lying your ass off in dating profiles and new relationships. Look, I get it. When you’re trying to meet potential partners or develop a… Read More »If You Don’t Like Eating Pussy, Just Say So: A Pubic Service Announcement
A special thanks Dan and dawn over at Erotic Awakening for mentioning my blog and the post “Slave Heart” on their podcast here. Apparently, I… Read More »Yay!
Even though I’ve recently set up this public blog presence of my charmed life and kinky times, I’ve been posting introspection and navel-gazing on predominantly… Read More »Why Write?
The compound acronym “BDSM” breaks down into B&D, D&S, S&M or bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. So really it’s BDDSSM –… Read More »Discipline