I’m very interested in polyamory, but one thing holds me back. I worry that it’s not possible to have multiple relationships and have them all… Read More »Polyamory Is Not for Perfectionists, But Neither Is Happiness.
PQ 7.2 — What can I do to be more direct in my communication? * The process of moving from an indirect style to a direct style… Read More »PQ 7.2 — What can I do to be more direct in my communication?
PQ 3.2 — Have I sought input from everyone affected? Have I obtained their consent where my decision overlaps their personal boundaries? (Chapter 3 questions are… Read More »PQ 3.2 — Polyamory and Boundaries, First Degree, Second Degree, and Beyond
“You can have it.” “No, it’s yours.” “Just take it already.” It’s a dance that Justin and I do. Each one deferring in turn, the… Read More »The Last Pretzel Bite: The Ins and Outs of Out-Niceing Each Other
PQ 2.6 — When I visualize the kind of relationship I want, how much space does it leave for new partners to shape the relationship… Read More »PQ 2.6 — How much space do I leave for new partners’ needs?
There’s no getting around it. One of the most sabotaging things you can do is not set boundaries with other people. It can be extremely damaging to your life and happiness if you regularly say yes to other people when you really want to say no.
While it feels good when something is relatable, is it always good? Or are there times when memes simply give us the permission not to do the work to change and grow?
Today’s article is a guest post by frequent Poly.Land contributor Fluffy about what they’ve learned from two of the worst years of their life.
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“Dating is the worst,” she says. “Tell me about it.” “I’m just tired of explaining myself,” she says. “Over and over again.” “Oh? The poly stuff?”… Read More »Being on the Market Longer Means Making Peace with No
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