I Used to Date Someone Who Ruined Moments on Purpose
It’s weird. I’m over it. Over us. I am. After all, I was the one who ended it, wasn’t I? I usually am the one… Read More »I Used to Date Someone Who Ruined Moments on Purpose
It’s weird. I’m over it. Over us. I am. After all, I was the one who ended it, wasn’t I? I usually am the one… Read More »I Used to Date Someone Who Ruined Moments on Purpose
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I used to be in such a hurry. All of the time. I hurried even when I had nothing really going on. Heck, especially when… Read More »I Used to Be in Such a Hurry
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I have found that the most difficult and most rewarding challenge of my work is how to be both a mapmaker and a traveler…Over the… Read More »It’s Not Easy Being Both Mapmaker and Traveler
It was a simpler time, once upon a time. I can still remember believing that most people were reasonable, open-minded. I can remember assuming that… Read More »I Can’t Care Enough for Both of Us
I ran into a rather cute term a while back: An askhole. What’s an askhole? Well, essentially, it’s what you call a person who asks… Read More »What’s an Askhole? How Can You Avoid Being One?
It is always happening whenever I talk to my mother. She’ll say something petty and ungrateful. Someone will have done something nice for her. Something… Read More »A Lot of Behavior Generally Pleases Reasonable People But Only Manages Difficult People
There’s a lot of advice out there about interpersonal relationships. And yeah, a lot of advice pertaining specifically to romantic ones. The more advice you… Read More »That One Time I Didn’t Give Up on Someone…and Regretted It
She talks fast. Really fast. It’s as though she expects to be interrupted, and she’s doing her absolute best to get as much out before… Read More »She Talks Really Fast Because She Expects to Be Interrupted or Ignored