PQ 14.5 — Is everyone affected by the agreement at the table negotiating it? * Ooooo… This one is a flashback: PQ 10.3 – Does everyone affected… Read More »PQ 14.5 — Is everyone affected by the agreement at the table negotiating it?
PQ 13.6 — In what ways am I empowered in my relationships? What things help me to feel empowered? The Power and Responsibility of a… Read More »PQ 13.6 — In what ways am I empowered in my relationships? What things help me to feel empowered?
PQ 12.5 — Do I trust my partner to make good decisions about whom she starts relationships with? Why or why not? What might the… Read More »PQ 12.5 — Do I trust my partner to make good decisions about whom she starts relationships with? Why or why not? What might the consequences be if she makes a poor decision, and how might I deal with those consequences?
PQ 12.2 – Who do I think should have the final say in whether a relationship ends? Why? * “I just want to say I’m sorry,”… Read More »PQ 12.2 — Who do I think should have the final say in whether a relationship ends? Why?
The Worst of Both Worlds? “So he let me know that another girl asked him out and he said yes,” she says. “And I want… Read More »Polyamorous Middle Child Syndrome: Being in the Second Oldest Relationship
People make a lot of assumptions about how polyamory would be a different way to live. Typically they assume it’s something having to do with… Read More »Polyamorous Hinge Problems: Shifting Gears Quickly
“So how was your date?” I ask him. “I had a good time,” he says. “Nothing kinky or sexy happened. No scenes. But I liked… Read More »Why Kinky Girls Are Like Cats: The Observation Period
“If you asked most people whether they believed in love or not, they’d probably say they didn’t. Yet that’s not necessarily what they truly think.… Read More »Running Out of Side Quests on the Quest for Primary
Quartz recently published a piece called “Turns out open relationships aren’t the most sexually satisfying.” As Cassie Werber writes in the article: Opening up a… Read More »Are Open Relationships Less Sexually Satisfying or Is Dating?: An Alternate Hypothesis
I Am Not Your Wife “I called off my date,” he said. “You did what?” I asked, confused. “It seemed like what you wanted,” he… Read More »I Am Not Your Wife: On Dating the Inexperienced
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