“You guys aren’t married, are you?” our cab driver asks us. “Actually we are,” I say. “Newlyweds?” he asks. “We’ve been together eight years,” I… Read More »“You Don’t Act Married. You Like Each Other Too Much.”
Why do you waste so much time writing about things that aren’t controversial? I stared at the question on my screen. It had come from… Read More »The Rest of Your Life Needs You, Not Just Your Controversy
A while back, some friends of mine, Margo and Emily, had their first foray into polyamory as a couple. They’d already been sexually open for… Read More »It’s Tough to Pack Your Ego in Mothballs, But You Might Need to if Your Metamour Is Reluctantly Polyamorous
Today’s piece is a guest blog post from Fluffy, an academic in-training, who is studying organizational behavior in hopes of making the world a better… Read More »I’m Too Anxious to Be Jealous
Hi Page, I heard you talking on a podcast saying that you used to have three primaries. How is that even possible? I thought you… Read More »Co-Primacy: Yes, You Can Have More Than One Primary
PQ 16.7 — What accommodations do I make if one of my partners experiences jealousy? * You know, when it comes to my anchor partner,… Read More »PQ 16.7 — What accommodations do I make if one of my partners experiences jealousy?
PQ 16.6 – What boundaries do I set for myself in relation to each of my partners? * For anyone looking for a basic introduction… Read More »PQ 16.6 – What boundaries do I set for myself in relation to each of my partners?
Every morning I said hello to my third roommate: Xena Warrior Princess. She was cardboard, all 6 feet of her, and well dressed for any… Read More »But Isn’t Polyamory Bad for Children?
PQ 15.5 — How do I define “commitment”? Do my definitions leave room for nontraditional commitments and nontraditional relationship trajectories? * Here is a good example… Read More »PQ 15.5 — How do I define “commitment”? Do my definitions leave room for nontraditional commitments and nontraditional relationship trajectories?
2011 “Oh my dear Pageling,” Hilda said. “Don’t be so sad.” I suddenly came to. Realized I’d been staring straight ahead with an unhappy expression… Read More »Work Trips & Date Nights: “Isn’t It Weird for You When Your Partner Is Out?”
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